Need help

[lostluv]

Well, helping more with my daughter is a 180
Doing more housework is a 180
Taking care of the pets more is a 180
Not "yelling" is a 180....but that was rare
spending money selfishly - haven't purchased anything since june and sold my car and paid off bills w the money.
In general being there and helping more.....and I have been doing all of that. She even told me to quit doing so much about a month ago. I figured because I was constantly pushing to resolve things, talk about things, being emotional, that I should quit doing that and give her space as a 180. I even suggested that we do counseling bi - weekly rather than weekly.
Whenever we talk about the relationship she says she doesn't know what she wants aand I get emotional then she says she would be better off alone so she isn't hurting anyone .

Occasionally I had asked her if I can do anything different be she says no. I ask how she is doing emotionally...she says the same.

I'm reading the book again but I haven't had bad behavior for a while other than breaking down and crying....and I have done that leaving the room and going somewhere else but she comes and says she can hear me and I need to stop.