Yup, right on uR. After xh dropped the nuke on me.... I was so upset for him! I spent weeks agonizing over what he must have been feeling. I think that's why my anger has been coming of late... because I spent time focused on his feelings.
I need to make it about me know. Just like you, Shining. I didn't mean to hijack, I just want you to know that I am there with ya, sista! ahem... time for change (wink, wink).