Sometimes she looks like she wants to say something or is expecting me to say something (like tonight when she went to bed). But she just said "hope you have a good night" (I work 3rd shift) and I just tell her the same. I SO badly want to hug her, kiss her, and tell her that I love her (which I haven't done in a few weeks)......I feel like I should ask if there is something she wants to talk about....but the other side of me says "no, this is a 180....don't bug her and keep pushing to talk".

How do I know if I'm doing the right thing? It's taking a lot to hold back. It's definitely a LITTLE easier than it was a couple months ago. .....but really hard!

me-42
w-33
d-3
together-6
m-4yr
6/1/14-w check out
6/15/14-EA?
8/1/14-mc
9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing
9/15/14-w suggest separation
10/17/14 wife is done
12/13/2014 - wife move out
me file 1/1/15