I'm probably the wrong guy to ask on this, as I'm a bit of a "high test score" (or is it "low"?? ) on this subject. I decided for myself that continued DECEIT just didn't work for me. Not on the big stuff. So I re-confronted my wife with the evidence that I had (and bluffed some of the rest), and told her I was no longer willing to sit there and be made to be the bad guy while she lied to our adult daughters and to her own parents, and making it like *I* was the crazy one.
I gave her 5 minutes to decide.
I just told her that even if our marriage was going to end, that we had to co-parent effectively together, and that we'd ALWAYS taught our kids that LYING IN OUR FAMILY wasn't tolerated . . . so why were we doing it now?
But I was ready to let the chips fall where they may.
) on this subject. I decided for myself that continued DECEIT just didn't work for me. Not on the big stuff. So I re-confronted my wife with the evidence that I had (and bluffed some of the rest), and told her I was no longer willing to sit there and be made to be the bad guy while she lied to our adult daughters and to her own parents, and making it like *I* was the crazy one.