"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
I'm sure it was a tough decision for your D. We have all had experiences that have put us in difficult situations. I can't imagine what this must feel like for you and for her, on top of everything else going on.
I hope you are also able to lean on others for support. I think of you and your sitch often. You are such a strong, loving, wonderful man and father.