Do I start 180 at this point?

[MrBond]

Alright, then let us know when you've started reading them. The problem is that we can't offer you advice based on DB and DR if you haven't read them.

All you're doing is concentrating on her A. What were some of the issues that you had in the M? Be as detailed as possible. DON'T include anything about the A and own up to the things that YOU did wrong. Be brutally honest with yourself here.

If you try to cover things up ... 1) we'll be able to pick it up, and 2) you won't be doing your situation any favors.