Today, I noticed our car insurance expiration was October 3. So I sent an email to insurance guy for the new policy card, proof of ins.
Come to find out that H D19 has the same type of car as my S18. Apparently, my S18 car was mistakenly removed from the policy when H D19 got her own policy in August.
So, I had my S18 car added back on again. Ugh. Also, H S21 name is still on the policy. S21 has his own insurance.....
H must be very confused. This is not like him AT ALL to get this so mixed up. Or, it could be the agent, too.
Oh, well. It's all straight now.
I had to text H about the insurance, because he will be notified it changed. He was not full-blown monster, but definitely in distancing, withdrawing, and "get away from me" mode.
He said he prefers all my kids off of he policy. "I want S18 name off my insurance". Those were the words. He had recently said that he is still very bothered by some things my S18 did in the past....like a year ago. (The same S18 who found H and took care of him during H suicide attempt).
Time to get over yourself, buddy. Grow the f-up.
So, even if I'm not to blame for H problems, he is going to blame what was a high school kid for his unhappiness. Real mature. Sure gives away a lot of his own power to a kid, huh....
H then asked (in the text) if I speak to the insurance guy, would I also remove his S 21 from the policy. He said if not, he will be glad to do his part. How gracious of him.
I didn't respond.
Then a few hours later, he decides to play his turn on word game. This bouncing is really fast, isn't it?
I guess he got his tantrum/frustration out, and now he feels better so he's checking to see if I'm here?
I have no clue what's going on in H mind. And I don't really care.
Here are the things that recently happened (that I know of) that had nothing to do with me:
He had a bad weekend with apartment management His air conditioner broke His apartment lost power for a long time His D19 totaled her car H is upset at his mother for something selfish she did Someone in his building left a nasty note on his vehicle because of the way he parked
I can't say whether these are bothering him, or if these are reasons he's crabby and distant. I know he's stressed. I know I've done nothing.
If he's mad at me and files for D, I can't do anything about that. I kinda feel we're already D anyway. Just not in the business/legal sense.
So I'm living my life without him. Too bad for him. It turns out, I'm kind of a catch. .
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