Rev, I don't think you did it right. You should have just said you were going to get some coffee (hell! Starbucks is irresistible) or run some errands AND left off the part of keeping yourself from checking her phone. I think she may go into super ninja mode where it'll be hard to trace any dialogue she has with OM.
In my sitch, I felt an urge to check myself this past Fri. night after she got home from work like at 1130PM and was knocked out, but I didn't. I recalled a guy on these forums mentioning he failed in his quest to have his marriage work. Snooping and getting caught was a reason he felt contributed to his failure.
By the way, are you in a Signal unit? When I was in the Army I was in 11th Sig. Bde. back when they were in Ft. Hauchuca, AZ.
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