Quick update on GAL: This weekend I spent time with 5 different friends. Tonight I am going to a concert for a band I've heard of that sounds fun. I played tennis twice this weekend.
Looking for feedback: Spoke to my relatively new IC today. He suggested that I cannot stay in limbo forever, and that one of the problems with my marriage has been the poor communication and if I do not bring up the relationship with her then things will slowly decay. He suggested that the next time I see her for our weekly date I 'invite' her to have a conversation about our relationship if she is ready. Alternatively, I was thinking I could ask her if there were any issues she would like to discuss. Previously I sent her a letter (a bit over a month ago) where I suggested that we take one issue and talk about it each week - and she agreed to it one time when we went for a walk but that hasn't happened yet.