"But the implication was that he was neglecting his kids."
And where did we say that? That is mindreading on your part and shows you aren't reading fully the message posted. When you start taking your mind off the WAS and onto something positive like the relationship with your kids, you become a better person which does show through to the WAS.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.