Hi I'm new, I hope I won't be a burden... prt 4

[25yearsmlc]

Sometimes we say "do the math" and it goes like this:

"Consistent changes + sufficient time = change she can believe in."

Meaning, once you finally make some changes in how you handle things and once you have done that, for awhile, you can begin to determine what else you want to do or how you feel.

Until If & When that happens, she can't tell how marriage to you would be different or better. COMMIT to the DB methods or hey, find another approach.

. but admit that, so we don't fret about how you are Not "DBing."

You have the choice. You do NOT have to do this our way.

All I'm saying is make a choice and stick to it, for some time...like 90 days for the
DB way.

After 90 days of consistently new, & different behavior, THEN Monitor and Assess if it is helping you to reconnect, or not.

Then make your choices & act accordingly.