I think you guys might be coming down hard on mindsin. I recognize the need for tough love here, but I take him at his word when he says he is doing the generally unremarkable daily things one does for their kids. He's not on a forum for parenting advice, he's here to save his M. 25s advice is well stated, however I think it's wrong to pounce on his usage of the word "relevant". I don't believe he said that to imply that they don't matter, only that discussing his daily interactions with them isn't of the most importance, since he is striving to make that an area of consistency through DBing.

It is true however, mindsin, that obsessing over the details of your Ws phone patterns gets you nowhere. I know because I struggle with things like this as well.


M: 33
W: 33
M: 9 T: 10
3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5
BD: 8/3/14
Living together