I was a lil hurt that H made time to go out of town...so made it even clearer that he does take off work for things he wants to do. i really wanted him to have a great time.
You know... I would validate/verbalize that to H.
Something to the tune of... I hope you had a good time, I like knowing you "recharged your battries"
Think of it as he is doing some GAL's himself.
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13