GGrass, thanks for giving me that advice on my thread!

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The differences I noticed yesterday in me was I spoke up and made my points to the bosses rather than take the blame and when I came home the whole stress of the day did not carry over. I cared that the job wasn't done as good as it could of been but I wasn't as invested emotionally as I would have been in the past.


This has been my experience, too. I used to stress so much over work, and now I'm like, "Meh. What happened today does not define me one bit. It is just one day." And I say "no" when I need to say "no." That's huge for me.

I've learned a lot from everything that's happened in the last year. I understand what you mean when you say it is giving you joy.

M:54, H:55
T:33, M:27
12/13 BD: EA
01/14 BD: PA, H leaves
03/14 H & OW break up
05/14 H says he will file for D
08/14 H initiates D
09/14 H wants to R
12/14 Still bungling our way through R