Matt, I agree w/Georgiabelle. You can't have a rational conversation w/an irrational thinking person who is operating on pure emotions at this time. Being cordial and pleasant during your interactions will show her that you actually do not hate her, but it also shows her that you aren't going to lower yourself to the level she is at currently.
I know you are hurt, disappointed, angry (at times) and most of all frustrated, but until this woman burns herself out emotionally and sees that you are not the enemy, she's going to continue to act out and more so especially if you push or react in a negative way to her behavior.
You've come a long way and I've been impressed at how far you've come since your dark days when joining the forum. I know you'll find the job that will keep you busy and challenge you. Continue to send out those resumes and when you least expect it, the job will appear. Stay positive and continue moving forward.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
