Newcomer living in Hell

[Ahoy]

My H was the same -- kept everything inside. I actually pity the WAS because they are incapable of communicating. I know for a fact that if I were having the same feelings that he had been having I would have at least tried to talk to him about it and work together on a solution instead of just running for the hills -- especially since a child is involved. I know that I'm able to commit to working through things if they can be worked on. And that is a skill I will take to my next relationship. Hopefully my next partner will be more worthy, and I'll have a chance to put my new-found knowledge that I've gained through this experience into use for a better relationship all around.