Shakspr #3; Love's Labours Lost

[MrBond]

My original threads have been gone for awhile from the various purges over 6 years of this. I have told my story to many individual posters who have asked for it. What is your question?

If you want to know how I stood for my M for so long, it came down to one thing...commitment. I made a decision to do so. Even though she said the worst things about me, acted in the worst way, had the OM come down to my working place to try and get me fired, etc. I kept one thing in mind. Her acting that way wasnʻt about me. It was about her.

So I became a better father. Learned how to be a better husband. Read every relationship book I could find and learned how to communicate better. Thatʻs what it comes down to. Get your mind off of your WAS and back onto you. But never let resentment and anger get the better of you. You can beat that.