The WAS having friends that reinforce a WAS's belief that working on a marriage is a bad idea, is normal. Your W was/is looking for friends to comfort her decision to leave a marriage. Its very normal so just let it be, and don't worry about it for now.
Below is your texts edited:
Humaira H: this divorce thing is really getting to me now
Humaira H: It Hurts so much that i wont get to hold him again that ill come home to an empty home from now on.. No one to cook for Humaira H: Thats my husband right there who ive been with four years... It kills so much i wish it could have worked out Humaira H: I actually dnt wana loose him henni...
Henni New: this marriage is beyond stable there is hardly any trust the lies the manipulation the simple communication.. hes a dick hes talkin to his mates about girls he was never ready for a commitment like married
Humaira H: thats true theres things about him that i wont find in any other person; this great person - something that i deserved but never got
I still love him despite everything and letting go is just killin me inside so much!
1Wish,
If these were really taken one night in May, these feelings may be gone by now. Also, one emotionally raw night talking to a friend does not mean these feelings did not change the same day even. Every detail here has to be taken with a grain of salt, so do not let 1 text conversation save or break your will to continue if you feel that in your heart this marriage is what you want.
I would also suggest you read back through this thread and see if you have overlooked other recommendations and ideas that other posters have mentioned. This is a very difficult process, so take your time, take breaks, and pray often.
"Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay." ~ Will Smith
