He asked if I wanted to go to costco & home depot today. I accepted. He wanted to hear about how my house offering went..details. He volunteered how he spent his evening (pizza/beer/at home). We grabbed a coffee to go, he had fresh cookies ready with him. He seemed very interested but not pushy & somewhat curious about my not involving him in address, etc of the house I offered on. We also discussed our business deal and agreed we would finish it up this week (lets see). While entering a store he sarcastically commented something about guys bringing their wifes/gfs to this mens store. I gave a quick comment back & he commented about my "a$$ remark" I said something like he should appreciate that I am not one of those wives... then he said something about he feels he is appreciating me. I just said "good, keep it up". A little while later, I received a reminder text that I had a few other houses to view today & I ended our time short. We never did get to costco or home depot. He was going to go without me, but I asked to see if he would wait for me or go alone. I said I would call when I was done. I gave him a text about 45 mins later, he was still waiting for me. I suggested shopping with him another time this week. He said that the house stuff was more important. ... (I was surprised that he didn't go on his own). By this time, I had gone shopping with my DD & to think about the house I had just viewed. We were thinking of another offer. I involved him a little about the address & to go view online... he seemed interested and wanting some involvement.
It is very scary to be buying a house on my own. All I ever wanted was to be in a family home together... (sad)
I guess this is independence...
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
