You have some great coping skills, Mighty. Oddly, they work better in some situations than others. Your xh for example. I know how that goes. And oddly, as you deal with other things that life brings, you start to process those things. In the background.
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Then I though, you know what? I don't need to respond. S told him everything was fine. And I don't need to respond to him because he is ????????'ing me. I mean seriously, he and hww can be insecure about texting with each other. I don't owe him anything.
That's a great example of you re-prioritizing in a good way. Kind of helps put things in perspective, although I don't wish that route for you smile

Go easy on yourself regarding your son. He's trying to be a man, and it ain't easy sister. There will be more "challenges" I'm sure. But if you worked through it, I'm sure it'll work out well in the end. That's a skill he can really use and he's lucky to have a mom he can do that with. Seriously.

A Bills fan? Hmm...we'll leave that alone wink

Let us know you have the support you need, yeah? I suspect you'll have lots, but always good to check.

AJ


"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
Put the glass down...
"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."