I'm not sure what to do-

I have met my H once a week for the past couple of weeks, for a
drink and we chat about work, the kids, politics, etc... But I

always stay positive and never mention the A. I enjoy spending

this time with him- and he seems to enjoy it as well. However,

yesterday when I spoke with him on the phone, as we concluded

our discussion, I said to him, "Will we have a chance to get

together next week?" He said that he might have time Tuesday

or Wednesday. I said, why are you only free those days. He

told me it's because the OW works late one night a bowls the

other night. I said, "So, I guess she doesn't know that you

have seen me these past couple of weeks..." He said, "No, and

I'd like to keep it that way." Am I an idiot? Should it be

okay for me to see him with the OW not knowing? I can't believe

I am even saying this!!! Spending this time with me, I hope

lets him see a positive me, trying to be a "happy, together

woman" that he would wish he hadn't left.... Is it okay to

spend this time with him????