My H has communicated that he's angry that it took him leaving for me to understand that my behavior was unacceptable. Ironically, it took him leaving for me to realize that HIS behavior was unacceptable to me, too, BUT this isn't about that. I can make changes, changes I've wanted to make forever but blamed him for my inability to make them (crazy? yeah.). I'm done with blame. I'm done with distractions, avoidance, attacking... I can only control ME and that's what I will do.
