Ok I need input in the form of an answer to the question, "did I just do that right?"
W was taking a nap and the urge to snoop was overwhelming. I decided to take a trip to the coffee shop and do some reading to prevent checking her phone. Just as I'm about to walk out the door her alarm goes off and she wakes up, asking why I'm leaving without saying goodbye or where I was going. So I told her. I said I was going out for a bit because I hated feeling the desire to watch her every move and I knew she didn't like being spied on either. That led into a fight about how I had no reason to be suspicious and that she had told me everything. I told her I knew that she was not being completely honest with me and until she wanted to be then I wasn't going to devote myself to an M where I'm the only one in it 100%. If she decided that she could never be fully truthful then we would have to separate (no D word).
Engage spewfest. Right in the middle of her rant about not wanting to see me until we meet out of town in a few days I was out the door and am writing this from the coffee shop.
Man she's mad, and I notice that I'm detached enough to be ok with that. So...did I do that right?
