"You make it sound like I'm doing things just to get back at her."
AGAIN, did I say that? NO. Your W is right, you really do need to work on your communication skills. The victim mentality that you seem to want to hold on to is whatʻs holding you back. Go back, read the posts and try to UNDERSTAND whatʻs being written to you.
"I am using this opportunity but it's hard to cope with. I understand you're trying to help but I feel like you are spinning everything I say when I vent."
In what way am I "spinning" anything? I just respond to what you wrote. You just CHOOSE to see it as spin. The problem is that youʻve decided to take a position and refuse to budge from it if you donʻt agree. And that anything else contrary to that is a "spin".
Youʻve done that since your first post.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
