Shakspr #3; Love's Labours Lost

[MrBond]

I wrote this on Old Dogʻs thread for you...

"Bond. This is out of line with everything I've read in every child development/divorce book I've read."

And have you read the statistics as to how affective that advice is to stopping children of divorce from having divorces themselves? Thereʻs a reason why MC has such as low rate of actually saving Mʻs.

"I have been told and read to say that this is a decision, and not a good one."

Sure you can say itʻs a decision, HOWEVER if you donʻt phrase it correctly, it teaches the kids that itʻs okay to leave and that everyone will be happy because of it. They youʻll have your kidsʻ spouses on this forum wondering how to save their marriages.

"Other words...well. I have a few, but, well, you seem to be on point about everything. Where is this coming from?"

Itʻs called real life. The ones that were able to save the M, showed to their WAS and the kids that itʻs not "okay" to leave. But again, itʻs just an opinion and if you donʻt agree, then you can say it the nice way and everyone will think that everything is great. EXCEPT for the LBS. Deep down inside, they know itʻs wrong and goes against their morals and ethics. Then that turns into resentment and anger, etc. Not all the time, but often.