Iwish,

There is no shame in needing professional help to get some TOOLS for NEW problems. (New tools would be nice).

Most of us got help, me included.

Why wouldn't we avail ourselves of one of the resources out there these days?
Get yourself into some counseling. And don't skimp on it. Talking to your sister is healthy but its' NOT the same as"going to counseling" and you cannot pretend is is.

I guess I don't understand your resistance, but it's real. You need to overcome the resistance to change and MAKE the changes. Talk is cheap. Time to act and have some follow thru.

Go for it, Iwish, make the changes happen, or let her go.


Last edited by 25yearsmlc; 10/05/14 04:35 PM.
M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change