Man, MrBond got me all twisted up on OldDog's thread. Sitting down to tell the kids you are divorcing, telling them that you are against it, without painting the W in a corner as the bad guy, seems impossible.

Any ideas?

And, BTW, it seems a BUNCH of us are doing the talk with kids this weekend. Bad season for DB'g, I suppose.

If you're out there, Bond, I really would like to know your perspective. I am 100% against divorce. I was trying to break the cycle for my children in my own marriage, but screwed it up. I fully intend to raise them in such a way that they develop into people who can DB without even thinking about it - in regular life. I will hand them a copy of DR and 5 LL on their 2nd wedding anniversaries.


Me: 43 XW: 43
T15 M14
D21, SS15, S11, D8
BD: 8/6
EA / possible PA discovered 9/29
D final 10/20