Mrbond, I know I wasn't perfect but neither was she. We discussed our issues in the past and thought we were over them and they never came up until june. We just bought a house last year and constantly planning the next 20+ years and was trying for a second child. Fertility drugs and everything. But june she said she was wanting out....which is when I found she was talking w a male co - worker and meeting out for drinks. She was willing to work things out until I called her out on lying and sneaking around. That's when things got ugly. When she had the trigger if the other man is when she started bringing things up from years ago because anything that was current I addressed and she had nothing. I'm not mind reading, I know my wife's body language , especially now. And I never called her a b*tch....so quit putting words in my mouth. She hasn't left yet.....she wants me to leave physically. ....I will not. That's why I said if she truly wants out or separated she can leave.
me-42 w-33 d-3 together-6 m-4yr 6/1/14-w check out 6/15/14-EA? 8/1/14-mc 9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing 9/15/14-w suggest separation 10/17/14 wife is done 12/13/2014 - wife move out me file 1/1/15
