H actually exposed his affair to everyone himself, he introduced the girlfriend and her kids to his family immediately. It made things harder on ME when he wanted to try and work things out. I felt betrayed by not only H but by his entire family. Long story but his family is not welcome in my home now.
And my friends "informed" OW that H was married/told her to stay away.
It didn't stop/slow them down at all. So my advice to you is abandon that idea.
Last edited by twinmom; 10/05/1401:03 PM.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction