You posted in detail the minutiae of your W's cell phone usage. You wrote a lot about that.
Push yourself to write more about how you are connecting with your kids and supporting them through this.
Ask yourself the very hard question of whether obsessing over your wife and her OM is taking time and mental and emotional energy away from the other very important people in your life.
I'm curious where your kids were when you were poring over the phone records and detailing it all here.
I'm sorry that this sounds harsh, but you didn't seem to get Mr.Bond's post. And you need to work on your GAL. Because if you were doing that, honestly, you would not have as much time or emotional energy to spend on your W's affair.
Tell us what you did this weekend so far? What have you (or can you) put emotional energy into? What in your life is bringing you joy? How so? Tell us!
