I want to do Labug's plan of marking off days on a calendar before talking to H. Should I have a goal for how many I mark off to get my rewards, or should I just mark them off and see how I do? I don't think I'm a very good judge of my mental fitness at the moment. Looking back over my threads, it looks like I have a meltdown about every two weeks so I guess I should aim to go three and see what that does.

Ahoy, you gave me good advice. I appreciate it. I'm going to sit with it. I think I got all excited with the way things went in the last 2-3 weeks and forgot what I've learned.

Last edited by Maybell; 10/04/14 10:59 PM.
Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.