should have said "the controlling one who wants the last word."
labug, I knew exactly what you meant.
Taking things as they come. My motivations are back on track. She is free. I have let go. I do not accept in any way that her desire to create a relationship w/ OM before our marriage is over is any form of truth. If anything, it lit a fuse and combined with her unhappiness, gave her a reason to divorce that no amount of DB'g was going to crack. Agree to disagree, I hope. I certainly understand where you are coming from. And you have done a great job of ensuring that I focus my efforts on myself at a time when I would normally project all this crap at her.
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20
