"After leaving...how do I affect her emotionally?"

You can't. That's out of your control. That's why you just keep concentrating on yourself.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER