Magingmagic, where'dja go??

[makingmagic]

Hey Matt... thanks for pointing that out... I was already thinking along the lines of what you are saying which is why I came back to post. Thank you for explaining in a gentle way.... I appreciate it. It comes across as a gentle hug.

I am very much too close to my situation and therefore value an outsiders opinion.

I will take a half of the pill from above because only part of it is truth.

An example of what is half truth is my business deal/house situation. It is ME who is putting a road block from buying a house because I want my deal in writing BEFORE I take money from the business. It is suggested that HE is preventing me from buying the house and that is not true. He is more than willing to give me any amount of money I want to take from the business or even a personal loan from him. Because I am firm on wanting to do a personal deal first, I am withholding from myself. Although he is not agreeing with how I want to do it... He IS willing to do it MY way and therefore we are finishing up our agreement. He wants to get it past us & move forward. There are things in that agreement that we both don't like but will accept so that its finalized. period.

So, when someone posts what they THINK and its not the truth, I get defensive & feel the need to clarify because I want the reader to know the whole story so they can form their opinion and give advice from that point.

What I posted in that last post is TRUE... however, he is a work in progress... He is not fully who I need him to be.... He is still coming out of his MLC. Like many of the others who post on this site we write about the good, the bad & the ugly...., maybe I do this wrong???

I think that good relationships have temporary moments of the characteristics of above. If they are lasting...thats a REAL problem. Sometimes situations place those we love in insane conditions...temporarily!

I would truly love to see my situation in an unbiased way.... I am open to hear and be shown, but please allow me to clarify & then continue to show me past that. This will be a HUGE help to me. One at a time.

Taking a half of the pill now!