Originally Posted By: MrBond
I guess you don't need my advice. Good luck

This confuses me. Why would you think I don't need your advice? It sounds like your stance on standing for M based on your marital vows is similar to mine. That does not mean I don't waver or that I still need to weigh heavily the pro's and con's of each legal decision I make. You are obviously a very valued contributor here and I want ANY advice or opinions you are willing to give. Did I miss something? I'm not exactly in MY right mind now either, so I wouldn't be surprised if there was advice I missed or didn't take completely to heart.


Me- 40 H- 41
S8, D5, S4
M 19 y T 23
Bomb drop 6/2013
H asked for/filed for D 9/2014
22 yo OW discovered 9/19/14 they're engaged and living together