Well, now that's a different can o' worms you've opened cause if my kids were going into a home where there's a man with DV convictions with 2 wives, I'd be speaking up. Even verbal abuse is damaging for kids to hear on a regular basis. Your W has made her choice and she's an adult, her consequences are hers. The kids are a very different matter.
That's not being vindictive that's providing for the safety of your kids.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss