PS the punched in the gut feeling is due to the disconnect between seeing someone you thought you knew and realizing he is not that person. It's not about ego, but it has a lot to do with processing the sadness that comes with the loss of illusion.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!
