Maybell XIV

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Vossy's question and insight is what detaching is all about, and not easy at all to reach as truly understood and the accepted state of mind. This is by far the hardest part for all of us LBS's. And great two questions "rule".
Therefore: thanks you for having shared that, Vossy!

I think that as much as we LBS's fully woke up due to the BD of our spouses, and are changing because we very consciously choose to do so for ourselves because we did and do not like what we had become, have/do we hold on to the dream picture of the spouse that we fell in love with - who of course has also changed and is no more (and we can ONLY change ourselves if we choose to do so, not our spouses nor anybody else)?

Maybell: you, like all, are fully worth of having a great loving relationship. So good for you for not wanting to stay any longer in limbo, continue to concentrate on you and GAL.
Hugs sent your way.