Btw, Vossy, you have a lot of great mental tools. I like your two question rule. But I don't think anymore that we're going to reconcile. Turns out there are a lot of things he can do to hurt me that won't drive me off, but using me to salve his own sense of guilt is where I draw the line. But I'm sure I'll be using that tool a lot going forward, because this just made the relationship a lot more complicated seeing as how we have three little kids.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
