Sorry, Ss, I did it in person, on the spur of the moment, and not kindly or calmly.
He sat in that stinking chair for a long time arguing with me about why he doesn't want to make any effort to bring us back together. He sat there arguing for fifteen minutes after I told him he needed to leave. I had to ask him again to go.
I did text him after asking why he'd said he didn't want to divorce. He said he was unwilling to commit to one path or another.
I said some hurtful things tonight. I'm not proud of myself. But I'm done trying to lure him back. Men of integrity don't behave this way and I need my space.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15