Using the above DB approach and having patience, understanding things are a process etc-assuming the affair has ended after that first night when she told me which I feel is the case....
assume FOR NOW, that this^^^ is all true. Still does not mean she is ready to recommit, and she will need to believe that No one is going to throw this in her face down the road...Assuming all that....let's look at the rest of this AND the questions I just posed to you in the previous post... if they are still seeing each other everyday in work will this jeopardize my chances of reconciliation? Well It won't help. As for whether it will definitively hurt your chances, that depends on HOW SHE FEELS about him and you and marriage to you.
Which you do not know. You cannot know that yet so you are asking questions that only time and HER HEART can begin to answer...you control neither.
All you can do is GAL and DETACH from the outcome. Do you understand that?
if so what should I do?
Thanks in advance
What is it that you believe you CAN do to control the outcome of these questions?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
