BOB.

[GoatGal]

Hey Shining!

First, let me say how much I appreciate your continued support on my thread.

I wanted to read up on your sitch before I posted to you.

Secondly, I am so glad to hear that you are feeling more upbeat and grounded.
That whole "I want a D" via text thing is tough.
(I got mine via misspelled email, not much better.)

It's the coward's way and I believe they're well aware of that fact.

I also think the pain caused by such reading such a message really puts our DBing skills to the test.
It's incredible that you didn't do much more than have a text war... I know for me there was a part that thought "To heck with it! Might as well say what I want because it's all over now."
(Of course it wasn't but sometimes letting off a little steam is very understandable! It's just the shock and grief talking.)

Then it was wonderful to read how so many supported you and helped get you back on track with how great YOU are and all the things you have going for you. Your children, your spirit, your kindness as you've demonstrated here.

How BIZARRE that in one breath your H can say how he wants a divorce, and the next he's talking about how he's crazy attracted to you... WTF?

You've "ruined" him?
Does he mean other women will never compare? Probably right!
Clearly he's very confused and as others have suggested, he's still trying to make it all better and D is the next step. Or not.
Also odd that he is talking about how picky he is about other women...but he's getting all this attention... but it's not working. And that's somehow YOUR fault?

I know I am probably missing some vital detail, but boy. I've never read that one before!

He is certainly an interesting specimen. Perhaps he'd like to join my laboratory experiment and keep GUBU company.

You'd have to come up with a catchy name for him though!
(Or is he "BOB"? Or maybe that's Bring On the Bacon!!!!)

I am just impressed with how you're doing.

Shine On!


---GGG