I believe that your number one goal should be to find work outside the home as soon as possible. I think you have too much alone time on your hands. NUMBER ONE GOAL...!
That would be what I would recommend and the ONLY thing you focus on right now.. Everything else on the back burner.. (Your husband, your marriage, reconciling, what he thinks, how you interact, etc. etc... all on the back burner until you find work outside the home)Too many goals gets confusing and sometimes hurts us more than helps us....... One goal.. Find work outside the home...
You said this on another thread...
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I wish I understood men better.
Your threads come across to me as "women talk" type threads... Very few responses or interaction with what us men really think about your situation...
I can tell you that as a man, I would be directing you in a different direction than the one you have been on. No wonder you are "tired of it"... Is it possible that deep down inside that you KNOW that you KNOW?..
What would you say your husband is doing with his "sex drive"? Do you just believe he doesn't have one?
Also.. Sometimes people on here try to make so many changes and set so many goals that they keep getting confused. This causes them to constantly change goals or start new ones.. Very confusing..
Make one goal (ATTAINABLE).. Attain that goal.. Make another goal.. Attain that goal...
