Originally Posted By: jim0987


I read that she hasn't loved me for more than a year apparently. And pretty much every message refers to how awful I am and that she hates me.

I went to my IC the other evening and she thinks I went on a date. She seems to be twisting everything to justify her position.



Repeat after me - Don't believe anything they say and only half of what they do - and by the way, just because she said to someone else that she thought you went on a date, doesn't mean she believes it - she could just be trying to paint the situation in a favorable light to whoever she was talking to.

Look - just about everyone on this board has gone through this (usually before they get on the boards) - it is absolutely awful right now - but it will get better, I promise.


2 Ds: 7 and 4
BD and Sep: 7/14
Divorce Final 2/16