She's resentful that I've been away so long and that she never wanted the military spouse life, but chose to marry me anyway as a young, naive 22 year-old. Therefore she feels entitled to hold that against me, in the form of blaming me not being there for turning to these men, and I point out that regardless of how neglected she felt, the decision to have inappropriate relationships with other guys was hers alone. Round and round we go.
What do you mean remove myself from the situation? Detach more? LRT? Or are you suggesting the only solution is the Big D? Today was the first time I said that we need to go to counseling, not sure if that would help her be more truthful, or if it would put her into defensive mode, but it's something we have yet to seriously look into.
I've got two of your recommended books on the way, the, "No More Mister Nice Guy," and, "Hold on to your N.U.T.S." Let's see what those have to tell me. This whole situation just took a really weird turn yesterday, just when I thought things were improving.
