My inexperienced gut tells me that if he has dropped eye contact, and you are getting little or no response.....then perhaps make plans for yourself and be busy. I would say give him a lot of space. Don't initiate contact. Go dark for a while until the wind blows another direction.
I don't think you want to try to break through his resentment and anger....that's for him to change, yeah?
Again, I'm certainly not in piecing....still in pieces, lol. But I don't think you can go wrong by giving plenty of space, FWIW.
