So, how do I break through Clark's resentment and anger?
He was his oh so cheery self this morning...I'm really getting tired of his attitude. He has dropped some eye contact and is feeling unattractive. We were doing so well earlier this week. I thought we were on track. I'm stumped with the reaction he is still having to my comment Tuesday night. I'm not sure what he's thinking anymore. He's shut down contact too.
I am being happy around him. Smiling, trying to joke,but little to no response. I'm approaching this differently than I did before. I don't know if this is the right way or not. I guess none of us know with this MLC stuff.
I guess I'm asking the vets and those who have gone into piecing. Again we're not 100% there, but I feel we are on that track. How can I get past his anger and resentment without totally detaching again?
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile