Maybell XIV

[Ahoy]

When I find myself fixating on an unfixable situation, I find something that I can fix and do it -- like organize a closet, sort through the basement for clothes for goodwill, pull weeds. Anything menial that will give you a sense of accomplishment. Just do anything to break the mental cycle of focusing on it. And -- perhaps this is anathema -- you might give yourself a break from the computer for a bit. Get outside your head, your feelings, and just do something. Exercise helps too. These activities will keep you occupied while you pass through this part of the cycle -- and keep in mind it is a cycle, so you'll be feeling differently eventually, maybe sooner than you think!~