Thank you for replying. It means a lot to have support and an ear.

I do want to fight to reconcile our relationship. I loved him with all my heart. I just feel so powerless and lost and like I have no chance against this fantasy world he is living in. I don't know what happened to the man I fell in love with.

Does anyone have a story like mine with a good ending?


Engaged Aug 2009
Fiancé had doubts Jan 2010
Happily re-engaged July 2012
Discovery of affair July 2014
Separated July 2014
Fiancé is confused about whom to choose
Chose the OW Oct 2014