I haven't been here in a while - I still lurk and read other posts but not much to report from me. He did finally ask for some winter clothes - I pulled them out in trash bags and gave them to him - I think he was a bit shocked by that but never commented. Our anniversary came and went and nobody acknowledged anything. He has made his way further into the house - other than the front door - a few times which irritates me but I don't let it show. I am certain he has been talking to attorneys though I haven't heard a word. He doesn't ever talk. Small texts about kid schedules and that is it. So frustrating that this is my life. I thought he took his ring off on our anniversary so I in turn took mine off. That afternoon I noticed his was on - maybe I looked wrong? I don't know - i know i reacted hastily and that was a really hard day for me but maybe it was just something to prepare me for the future. I have put mine back on - I don't want him to think that I am ok with a D. It is so hard to not talk about anything. I have been stagnant for a while and I MUST do something about that - it is driving me nuts and I am sure responsible for my depressed mood of late. Detach, detach, detach - I wish there was a pill for that.
